How does one succeed in life?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

That's it for today.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Procrastinates a lot.

What was your best sex experience that still makes you horny?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Does not procrastinate.

Why do men first look at a woman's chest instead of their face?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

What were the first few days, weeks, months and then years like after finding out about your spouses infidelity? How did your feelings, and yours & their approach to the situation change in the immediate aftermath compared to later down the line?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Ask yourself:

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Why do people turn a blind eye to bad behaviour if someone is very good looking? Whereas if someone is ugly, they get harshly judged for everything?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Which document should be pointed out to a holocaust denier?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Making more friends is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Hangs out with loser friends.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

I have a "fat pussy" and I'm super self cautions about it. Do guys think it's gross?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Why has Biden pulled ahead in battleground states and is now projected to win the 2024 presidency?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

My boyfriend always verbally abuse me and makes me cry. If I try to tell him how hurt I was, he says to me he loves me and can't hurt me but always abuse me. Why?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

What I need from you?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.